FAQs

Do I need big boobs to be a Hot Mama?

Being a Hot Mama has absolutely nothing to do with physical appearance. It’s about being a mom and putting the timeless and unconditional love into your kids. It’s about the commitment you make to parenting and providing your children with what you believe to be the best experiences for them to grow up and become kind, loving, moral, and intelligent beings. Doing all this, while being smart, stylish, and strong. That’s what being a Hot Mama is all about (however if you have big boobs, and that makes you feel good about yourself, then more power to ya, and the same goes for small boobs, medium boobs, one boob, three boobs, etc).

Is your mom a Hot Mama?

Definitely. Being a Hot Mama is finding the balance between being smart, stylish, and strong. But most of all, it’s just about doing the best job you can and loving your kids whole heartedly. My mom came to this country speaking English as a second language. She chose to be a stay at home for the first 4 years of me and my sister’s life before persuing her education. She eventually earned her Bachelors Degree, Masters Degree, Specialist Degree, and ABD towards her Ph.D (this is starting to sound like a “Roxanne Roxanne” rap). She went on to work in the Atlanta Public School System for over 20 years while raising 2 head strong and sassy girls (ok, only 1 of us is sassy-and I’m not naming any names). Ironically, I didn’t appreciate my mom until I had kids of my own. Now I see what she went through and feel guilty for what I put her through. (Thank goodness I have 2 BOYS because I imagine payback would be a “mother” from a girl).

How often will you update your blog?

Everyday. Whenever I feel like it. This is not a paid position. Take what you get people.

Who is your favorite muscial artist?

Actually, I know no one cares, but I will go to any length to promote my love and affection for the greatest female artist of all time: ♥MARIAH CAREY♥!

What celebrity Hot Mamas do you like?

Well, it’s hard to say since I don’t know them personally, so I will base this on style and what I read in US magazine. I love Kimora, Gwyenth, Angelina, and Cindy Crawford. I’m all about the kids. My kids come first in my life and I sacrifice all my luxuries of yester-year to try and be a good mom to them. Some moms can do both-take time for themselves and still be attentive to their kids. I’m trying to learn to do that, but right now I can’t. So, I adore these celeb moms who seem to balance their careers with motherhood while still looking FABULOUS!

What Hot Mamas inspire you?

I will definitely say all the moms that are in Los Angeles. Women in LA are already hot and beautiful. But, the moms here simply raise the bar. I remember when Morris was an infant I took him to the park wearing the same dirty sweats for a week (me, not him), and I saw a mom there with 3 kids that looked so put together. I was in awe. I kept staring at her.  I couldn’t fathom how a woman with THREE kids could actually find time to comb her hair, pull off a matching outfit, and still manage to smile. I instantly made a pact with myself to at least go home and wash my sweats, hair, and Nike Shox. Then I gradually began learning “mommy tricks” of how to look great on a limited mommy schedule of time. For instance, invest in a great pair of stylish jeans. No one will notice if you wear them everyday as long as you change your shirt.

How old are you? You look so young.

25 years old(eyelash bat, eyelash bat) Why thank you. I love going to the grocery store with my 2 sons and getting all the disapproving stares of strangers because they think I’m some irresponsible pre-pubessant teen. Once a horrified woman boldly said, “I can’t believe such a young girl has 2 kids already…tsk tsk” To which I responded, “Oh no. These are just the 2 that will halfway listen. My other 4 are at home watching Jerry Springer and little Luigi and Trixie (pushing out and rubbing my pooch) will be here in no time.” I think she left the grocery store so fast she forgot to pay!

Anyway, I turned 36 March 25, 2010 (bow down to the Ram).

Why should I care what you have to say?

I don’t care if you care. Do you care if I don’t care that you do or don’t care? Who cares? And who’s on first? Honestly, this is just a great way for me to let other parents know it’s ok to make mistakes and it’s ok to be upset after a bad day. I remember my first weeks as a new mom and how lost and confused I was about my new job “stay at home mom.” I couldn’t really find resources or people that I felt knew where I was coming from with my parenting concerns. I was almost afraid of feeling like a bad mom for voicing some of my concerns and issues. But in time, I found my groove and got the ball rolling. I’m just here to share my journey and hopefully help a parent or 2 along the way. If you don’t like it/me….don’t read it.

Why are you doing a blog?

Parenting isn’t easy. I hope someone can connect with what I’m saying and know it’s ok to get frustrated, have a bad fashion moment, wanna smack their kids wanna put their kids in timeout. Writing and laughter are my outlets. This is my place to be me, and hopefully make someone smile in the process.

Are you on Twitter or Facebook?

You betcha! I kind of suck at tweeting though. I’m much more active on fb.

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Are you married?

Yes, to The Rock. Divorced.