I spent most of my life being a pleaser….wanting to make others happy, avoiding confrontation, going with the flow, over-nurturing men in relationships, putting myself last, etc. Then this wonderful thing happened: I turned 40 years old. As if on cue all of the above ceased. I really felt a change (no, not THE change…at least not yet). My perspective… Read more →
I remember sitting in Social Studies class learning about the Presidents of the United States. I was so bored. I looked at the picture my teacher was showing and thought, “I can’t really relate to any of these old white haired men”. The only President I felt a remote connection with was a young, charismatic JFK. Other than his biography,… Read more →
*Happy Anniversary to my mom and dad. I wrote this last year for their 45th anniversary*: On March 16, 1968 my parents were married in Bangkok, Thailand. Two kids and 45 years later they are still happily married. Both have retired from great careers, but that doesn’t mean they have slowed down much. They spend their time working with causes… Read more →
I love sharing great mommy finds. I stumbled on a YouTube channel that I love. Ayesha Curry is a mom who makes fun videos with recipes and cool mommy finds. Her YouTube channel, Little Lights of Mine covers: *Tag Videos *Mommy Must Haves *Fitness Fridays *Vlogging (Family Trips) Ayesha has a 2 year old daughter so if you’re a new mom or have… Read more →
I can’t remember the last time I bought a women’s magazine. I love fashion but I don’t like the fake ideology many magazine covers represent. When the world’s most beautiful supermodels, actresses, and entertainers are airbrushed and photoshopped what message does that send to women??? I’m pretty comfortable with my freckles, laugh lines, and crooked teeth. It would be nice if… Read more →
We are all familiar with Hans Christian Andersen’s worldwide tale of The Ugly Duckling…a homely barnyard bird lives a life of ridicule and hardship then matures and blossoms into a beautiful swan. This fairytale ending comes to fruition for many young girls who went through that awkward stage of acne, braces, glasses, bad bangs, perms gone wrong, and hand me downs.… Read more →
“40 is the new 30″…I keep hearing that over and over. I turn 40 this year, it’s a big milestone birthday and I’m excited. Everyone keeps asking me what it feels like, and honestly I don’t know how to answer that. (?) What is 40 supposed to feel like? I’ve never been hung up about my age. When it comes… Read more →
*May 31, 2013* I don’t think I’ve ever gotten teary eyed watching a commercial. Oh wait, there’s that David Beckham one in his H&M undies, but those were tears of joy. After seeing a Cheerios commercial featuring a biracial couple and their mixed daughter, I must say it really moved me. Bear with me, I’m menstruating emo right now. Growing… Read more →
CALLING ALL LAMBS: Valentine’s Day is right around the corner. My amazing imaginary BFF Mariah Carey will be teaming up with St. Jude Children’s Hospital to raise money and celebrate the day of love. Mimi will perform a special private show for the winner and their Boo at her crib in NY. Pretty awesome, right? You can enter by making… Read more →
Every year I dread doing the annual Christmas card. Ya know, coming up with a really cute idea, execute it, and send it to the people I only talk to once a year. This year the Holderness family of Raleigh North Carolina has taken it to another level. Their video holiday card has gone viral with over 600K hits and… Read more →