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The Flag Cake

30 Jun

As a mom, I try to make the holidays fun for the kids.

I want them to enjoy childhood and the innocence and fun of being a kid.

So, when the Fourth of July started rolling around, I began thinking about a fun family tradition.

Fireworks came to mind, but then I remembered I have an insane, rough and tough 7 year old and a curious 3 year old. Matches, fire, and explosions are probably not the best thing for us to be experimenting with in the backyard.

Baking is fun and easy. Sugar is a key ingredient, and it requires minimal use of knives and a hot oven. Maybe Morris will be game.

The “Flag Cake” seemed like a very appropriate recipe for celebrating the Fourth. It’s a recipe from Ina Garten (The Barefoot Contessa on the Food Network). I love her style of classic elegance. I was ready to take it on.

Before I proceed I must warn you that I have a cooking dysfunction. I am “recipe intolerant.” This means that no matter what the recipe says, I never follow it completely. I don’t know why. But for some reason, butter, cream cheese, and sugar always seem to make their way into everything I cook. Since these ingredients were already in the recipe, it seemed like a winner.

This recipe makes a very large cake. Immediately I strayed from Ina’s instructions. I cut the recipe in half to make a smaller version. As for the icing, I used the same ingredients, but again I did my own thing as far as the portions go.

I also changed the flag “toppings”. She used blueberries and raspberries. I used blackberries and strawberries. Subtle differences to accommodate a picky palette (and budget…strawberries are really cheap now).

Nonetheless, it turned out great. The cake has pretty thick texture similar to a pound cake. I made the traditional cream cheese icing (the same one I use for Hummingbird Cake, Red Velvet, and Carrot Cake). Here’s Ina’s recipe:

Ingredients

  • 18 tablespoons (2 1/4 sticks) unsalted butter at room temperature
  • 3 cups sugar
  • 6 extra-large eggs at room temperature
  • 1 cup sour cream at room temperature
  • 1 1/2 teaspoons pure vanilla extract
  • 3 cups flour
  • 1/3 cup cornstarch
  • 1 teaspoon kosher salt
  • 1 teaspoon baking soda

For the icing:

  • 1 pound (4 sticks) unsalted butter at room temperature
  • 1 1/2 pounds cream cheese at room temperature
  • 1 pound confectioners’ sugar, sifted
  • 1 1/2 teaspoons pure vanilla extract

To assemble:

  • 2 half-pints blueberries
  • 3 half-pints raspberries

Directions

Heat the oven to 350 degrees F.

Butter and flour an 18 by 13 by 1 1/2-inch sheet pan.

Cream the butter and sugar in the bowl of an electric mixer fitted with the paddle attachment on high speed, until light and fluffy. On medium speed, add the eggs, 2 at a time, then add the sour cream and vanilla. Scrape down the sides and stir until smooth.

Sift together the flour, cornstarch, salt, and baking soda in a bowl. With the mixer on low speed, add the flour mixture to the butter mixture until just combined. Pour into the prepared pan. Smooth the top with aspatula. Bake in the center of the oven for 20 to 30 minutes, until a toothpick comes out clean. Cool to room temperature.

For the icing, combine the butter, cream cheese, sugar, and vanilla in the bowl of an electric mixer fitted with the paddle attachment, mixing just until smooth.

Spread three-fourths of the icing on the top of the cooled sheet cake. Outline the flag on the top of the cake with a toothpick. Fill the upper left corner with blueberries. Place 2 rows of raspberries across the top of the cake like a red stripe. Put the remaining icing in a pastry bag fitted with a star tip and pipe two rows of white stripes below the raspberries. Alternate rows of raspberries and icing until the flag is completed. Pipe stars on top of the blueberries.

I had fun making and eating it with the boys. We will definitely add it to our 4th of July family traditions.

And just for added fun, we lit candles and sang happy birthday to America.

25 Manners Kids Should Know By Age 9

12 May

Parents Magazine posted an article about 25 Manners Kids Should Know by Age 9 in their March 2011 issue.

I don’t know where to begin with this one.  I was somewhat appalled that an article was even written covering standard manners for children. What are we as parents focusing on if our kids can’t master saying please and thank you by age 9?! SMH

Some of these are weird, Some are common sense, and some of these suggested manners aren’t even mastered by 39 year olds. The 1st 4 manners need to be achieved by age 3 in my house.

Take a peek, I’ve added my 2 cents.

Manner #1

When asking for something, say “Please.”

Umm…my 2 year old can do this. If your child waits til 9 to do this, there are some issues going on.

Manner #2

When receiving something, say “Thank you.”

See above comment.


Manner #3

Do not interrupt grown-ups who are speaking with each other unless there is an emergency. They will notice you and respond when they are finished talking.

I give up to age 3.5 for this one. However, after watching Celebrity Apprentice the other night, there are many adults still working on this one.

Manner #4

If you do need to get somebody’s attention right away, the phrase “excuse me” is the most polite way for you to enter the conversation.

See above comment.

Manner #5

When you have any doubt about doing something, ask permission first. It can save you from many hours of grief later.

This is the ole curiosity killed the cat, but on the other hand, I don’t want some insecure kid bugging me every 2 seconds. Must find good balance with this one.

Manner #6

The world is not interested in what you dislike. Keep negative opinions to yourself, or between you and your friends, and out of earshot of adults.

I don’t totally agree with this one. WE don’t live in a perfect world and your child will not like every thing/body. Perhaps if they express it in a tactful way. I like to know my kids’ dislikes, unless of course they don’t like Mariah or Brett Favre. Then yes, keep it to yourself or get smacked son.

Manner #7

Do not comment on other people’s physical characteristics unless, of course, it’s to compliment them, which is always welcome.

This is difficult to teach to kids, but I agree. Mo used to love to point out someone’s big azz and Bronson is now obsessed with butt cracks. This one is a work in progress.

Manner #8

When people ask you how you are, tell them and then ask them how they are.

Ehh….this one isn’t a big deal to me. Sometimes when people ask me how I’m doing, I just wanna say “Phuck off…did that answer your question?”.

Manner #9

When you have spent time at your friend’s house, remember to thank his or her parents for having you over and for the good time you had.

Yes, I’m a big believer in this one. Someone taking another kid in is a big pain in the azz responsibility. I will make sure my kids are appreciative just so I know I can get them out of my hair again in the future.

Manner #10

Knock on closed doors — and wait to see if there’s a response — before entering.

Oh definitely!!!! And especially if you see “the sock” hanging on mommy’s door.

Manner #11

When you make a phone call, introduce yourself first and then ask if you can speak with the person you are calling.

This one is plain weird. Your kid is not a telemarketer. I think using please is suffice.

Manner #12

Be appreciative and say “thank you” for any gift you receive. In the age of e-mail, a handwritten thank-you note can have a powerful effect.

Yes, I endorse this fully! LOVE handwritten thank-you cards, but I’m not against an email, as long as I know the kid used his own words and it’s not something generic.

Manner #13

Never use foul language in front of adults. Grown-ups already know all those words, and they find them boring and unpleasant.

Hmm…I sort of like discovering new potty words. I don’t want foul language directed towards me, but I do still get a chuckle when I hear someone else’s kid let a “SHIT” or “AZZHOLE” slip out, especially when used in proper context.

Manner #14

Don’t call people mean names.

See above comment.

Manner #15

Do not make fun of anyone for any reason. Teasing shows others you are weak, and ganging up on someone else is cruel.

I agree 100%. No one likes a bully and I am not against going toe to toe with a grade schooler for picking on someone.

Manner #16

Even if a play or an assembly is boring, sit through it quietly and pretend that you are interested. The performers and presenters are doing their best.

This is why Apple created the iPad and apps!!!!

Manner #17

If you bump into somebody, immediately say “Excuse me.”

And puhleaze don’t go around stepping on people’s tennis shoes. At least if I take my boys back to my old neighborhood.

Manner #18

Cover your mouth when you cough or sneeze, and don’t pick your nose in public.

Wow. If you can’t master this by 9 years old, I say manners #13, 14 can go out the window.

Manner #19

As you walk through a door, look to see if you can hold it open for someone else.

Definitely.

Manner #20

If you come across a parent, a teacher, or a neighbor working on something, ask if you can help. If they say “yes,” do so — you may learn something new.

Nah…mind your own business kid. Some people will take advantage of this one. 

Manner #21

When an adult asks you for a favor, do it without grumbling and with a smile.

Umm…depends on the favor. Perhaps run it by mom 1st. See above comment.

Manner #22

When someone helps you, say “thank you.” That person will likely want to help you again. This is especially true with teachers!

Agreed.

Manner #23

Use eating utensils properly. If you are unsure how to do so, ask your parents to teach you or watch what adults do.

Yes, if you’re eating at Villa Blanca or somewhere, but come on, I’m 37 and I still use a spoon with almost every meal. lol

Manner #24

Keep a napkin on your lap; use it to wipe your mouth when necessary.

Yes…good one.

Manner #25

Don’t reach for things at the table; ask to have them passed.

Yes…agree.

They also forgot a couple:

*when you fart, hurry up and leave the room before anyone can blame you

*Do not EH-VER go up to a woman and ask her if she’s preggers

*always tell your mom you love her no matter what!

Gonna Party Like It’s My Birthday…

25 Mar

What do me, Danica Patrick, Juvenile, Elton John, and Sarah Jessica Parker have in common?  Well, in addition to great hair and expensive taste in clothes, we all share the same birthday.  You can see what celebrities were born on the same day as you here.

Sunshine on My Shoulders” by John Denver could have been blasting in the delivery room while my mom was pushing me out.  It was the #1 song on my birthday.  This site lets you see the #1 song for any particular date: your birthday, anniversary, etc.  On the day Morris was born, it was Let it Burn” by Usher, and my MD was doing the tootsie roll to Lollipop” by Lil Wayne as she pulled a breeched Bronson out.

If you want to know how old you are in dog years, your birth tree, or when you were concieved (TMI for me) then check out this site.  It will give you a gazillion tidbits regarding the day you were born.  I will sleep much bettr tonight knowing that the Mayan Calendar long count date of my birthday is 12.18.0.12.7 which is 12 baktun 18 katun 0 tun 12 uinal 7 ki.

And last but not least, I just might grab some free grub at Black Angus, Captain D’s, Daphne’s Greek Cafe, or Souplantation then hop on over to Baskin Robbins for a free 2.5 scoop of ice cream.  This site shows you all kinds of freebies you can get in your neighborhood or online for your birthday.  The free swag doesn’t stop there.  You can also check out the freebies for your kids and your pet.

So, don’t be a birthday scrooge on your special day.  These sites will hopefully make getting older (and wiser) just a little bit of fun.

Casting Call

11 Nov

Wanna be on tv? All you need is a team of 3 people, 1 being an adult (over 18), 1 being a child (17 and younger). Team members can be family, friends, coach, teacher, etc…

CASTING FOR CARTOON NETWORK’S HIT FAMILY GAME SHOW “HOLE IN THE WALL!” See attached for more info on how to apply or go to www.holeinthewallcasting.com.

What Color Am I?

19 Oct

The main reason I chose to raise my sons in California is because of the beach diversity.

Growing up multiracial in the South taught me a lot, but umm…..I didn’t want my boys to grow up thinking the term “good hair” was a common word in Webster’s Dictionary.

Mo and B both have their own unique look, but it is pretty evident that they have a mixed racial background. This became apparent to Morris around age 5 when he started questioning why his hair wasn’t straight and blonde like the majority of people at his school. So, he started to question why our family looked so different.

In a perfect world, I would like to tell him he is mixed with ♥LOVE♥ and live happily ever after. But yeah, not enough.

The fact that social culture is filled with many mixed race personalities seem to help me sell my sons that it’s cool and ok to look “different”. President Obama, Halle Berry, Salma Hayek, Dereck Jeter, Jessica Alba, Tiger Woods, Mariah Carey, and Dwayne Johnson to name a few.

WOW!!!!….I’m sorry….what were talking about again?

Oh yeah, teaching Mo about HAWT AND SEXY MIXED RACE PEOPLE diversity.

After pointing out the familiar celebrity faces, we talked about our own family tree. How me and his dad are different colors, how my parents are different colors, all the different colors of cousins, etc. Then we talked about friends of his who are also children of interracial relationships.

This really seemed to help make sense for Mo the most. He has 3 good friends that are also mixed and knows their parents as well. The visual really seemed to register in his mind. Then it all started to click.

At some point it became a regular game where we’d be out in public and Mo would point and shout, “HEY MOM…look at that kid! Is he multiracial? His mom is a white lady and his dad is a black man.” So, as I was glad Mo was starting to understand the concept, we would quickly switch to scissors, paper, rock (did someone say The Rock?! lol). Even now, I love to hear him explain the concept to his younger brother, “B, you see that little boy on the swings, he’s multiracial. His mom and dad are different colors just like ours. Isn’t that KEWL?”

Self image is really important to all children and it starts at such a young age and in the home.

There are some great books that help also. I use these to read but also, just to have in the house for my kids to see “different” faces on a regular basis.

Does Anybody Else Look Like Me?

Part Asian, 100% Hapa

Mixed: Portraits of Multiracial Kids

My Rainbow Family

We’re Different, We’re The Same

The Colors Of Us

In time, I just hope that my boys are confident young men who appreciate differences in themselves and others. Hopefully this is a good start.

Children are not born prejudiced. Teach them tolerance, love, and acceptance in your words and actions. - Nora Moore

Mo is 6

22 May

 

I can’t believe I have a 6 year old now. I was just reading over the entry from Mo’s birthday last year. It truly does go by quickly.

Our lives have undergone major transformations since last year and I’m amazed and inspired by Mo’s ability to adapt to a new environment as well as lifestyle changes.

Mo reminds me so much of myself. I see so much of me in him. Sure, he’s good looking, funny, and smart. Those are the obvious similarities:-)

But he’s very compassionate, a perfectionist, and a competitor til the end. He thrives on making others happy even if it means he has to sacrifice. And he’s a little stubborn and hot tempered too :)

As a parent, it makes me proud to watch my son grow into such a loving and kind young man. Sure he curses on occasion, farts, and karate chops my neck, but what else could a mom ask for?

Happy Birthday Mo!

Little Boys

19 May

So, having 2 boys, I run into all kind of situations that are foreign to me. Obviously, because I’m not a boy.

Most recently, tennis shoes.

Here are Morris’s tennis shoes after 2 months of wear:

Here are my tennis shoes, same name brand and style, however I have had mine for 7 YEARS:

Having boys is just gonna take some time getting use to.

Let’s Eat!

16 Mar

I like to eat.

My kids like to eat.

Bronson LOVES to eat!

Mo is rarely seen without clutching his wallet or money. Bronson is rarely seen without food and/or drink in his hand.

Going for a spin with Big Bro (and a pizza slice).

Running after Mo, pizza still in hand.

I only need one hand to push brother.

Nice wheels. Great pizza.

And don’t even think about trying to take it from his hands!


Spare Change?

15 Mar

Mo is really into money.

He sleeps with his wallet. He hustles anyone that will listen. He works hard to earn an allowance.

Lately he’s been collecting change. I was FLOORED when I saw how much the quarters, nickels, dimes, and pennies added up to.

Parents, you better start checking your sofa cushions. It all adds up!

Note the empty apple juice containers on the floor. Those are Mo’s banks.

YES! $644.47! I’m taking Mo to Vegas!!!!!!

 

Extremes

17 Feb

 

 

Sometimes going to extreme measures with kids is necessary. On occasion, simple answers carry very little weight. Kids need a detailed dramatic picture to get through their hard heads.

 

 

 

 

 

 

Example:

Me: Mo, please don’t put those legos in your mouth.

Mo: Why?

Me: Because I asked you not to….(he takes it out but does it again 2 minutes later)


Me: Mo, please don’t put those legos in your mouth.

Mo: Why?

Me: I don’t want you to choke…(he takes it out but does it again 2 minutes later)


Me: Mo, please don’t put those legos in your mouth.

Mo: Why?

Me: Because they can get stuck in your throat, close off your esophagus, put a strain on your bronchial tubes, then I have to call 911, find a babysitter for your brother while we rush you to the hospital, spend hours driving in circles trying to find a parking place. Then you will have to get numerous painful shots, you will probably start bleeding, blood will gush out everywhere, ruining your new favorite Star Wars shirt, get all gross in your hair, we’d have to wash your hair (and I know how much you hate that) and you could DIE!!!!!!

He spits the legos out and hasn’t put one in his mouth since.

Sometimes you have to go to extreme measures.




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